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Dear Majid: You say you divorced 3 yrs. ago? If so the papers should have had provisions for you seeing the children, she can't just not let you see them unless she proved you totally unfit to do so, look at your papers for visitation of the children if there is some set up where you are suppose to see them at certain times then she is grossly in contempt of court, if you are going to fight for custody first it is going to cost you at least $10,000.00 and that is low and 2nd you will have to prove her unfit as a mother, which is hard to do, although her keeping the children from you for 3 yrs. is a start, you didn't mention how old the kids are but most courts will speak to the children if they are around 12 yrs. old, which you must consider that there is no telling what she has told them about you in the last 3 yrs. just what I would do is file for contempt or if there is no vistiation in your papers then go for visitation first, get the kids to know you again and prove you love them and want them before going for custody, however; don't disrespect their mother in front of them or ask them alot of questions about her, they will tell you if they feel the need to do so but you need to establish a relationship with your children before going for custody or you are just throwing your money away, just the fact that you have not done something in 3 yrs. to see them is against you. It looks like you abandoned them although it is not your doing a judge will see it that way. Just my advice and I don't know what state you live in I just know what going through a custody battle is like and as an ex legal assistant have seen what can happen.

My marriage had disolved. We had two Children whom my wife took with her. It have been about 3 years that I have'nt seen my kids inspite of my repeated efforts. She 1st filed civil suits in Courts of Law against me for some money matters that she had never discussed with me during her life with me. I tried my level best to save my home but could'nt succeed and the present situation. Now I have filed a suit against her for custody of my children. I miss them badly.

I am divorced from my wife and we had 1 son. she has left me and won't allow me visit my son at all. i don't want to take this matter as far as the courts. is there any other alternative?

Can you write how much time back did she leave. If it is recent just allow some time and do not contact her. If you keep patience and allow things to calm, you could then contact her with love and express your request and desire. Thats the best alternative that actually works.
Dont threat or use mean ways to do something that is connected with love. You may repent later.

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My wife namely shaheen has solominezed me in the december 1997 ihave 2 child (1)faiz (2) Uzair now my wife has leaved me and my childrens becz she wants to marry with an other man namely Ramaish against the muslim law im worried abt my inocent children and i love very muchwith my wife but she wnats divorce she has file civil suit in the court for disolation of marriage now what can i do ?

I left a verbally abusive alcoholic of a husband after 27 years of it. We had 3 children now 27 20 and 18. even tho they left with me the first time, I left him 3 times each time he had them beg me to come back. I tried my best to make it work...he got worse. the kids left and lived at friends house. when I left him for good. he played to poor victim and got themt o feel sorry for him. telling them I abandoned them. they stayed in the same town I went to another one. now our relationship is strined. how do I repair it. he still does his drunken feel sorry for dad bit on them...

i want to divorce my wife who is in australia but she is not coming back or giving her address where she is right now? she cheated me taking all my money , get her permananent residence withdrawing my application at the last time . i heared of her marriage with some one. so what to do now? i contacted many a people even to australian immigration but nothign is fruitful for me, plz help me in this regard.

Sweety u can check, Indian penal Code here and Christian marriage Act
http://misuseof498a.clawz.com

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