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Anonymous, I hope you're still on this list. Yes, it is true - if your marriage has not been consummated, it is considered null (if you wish to nullify it) by both religious and civil authorities.

I am in my mid-thirties and married to a man my own age who will have nothing to do with me sexually. Please, let me urge you: You have an honourable and blameless way out, one that will allow you to continue on to a sexually-rich relationship and still let you honour your husband. Do so, for your sake, as soon as possible, if having a physical relationship with the man you love is important to you (and there is no reason why it should not be).

Thanks Mike for the response...

Cialis is a "medicine" like viagra right? We did try viagra but it didn't work out for him and the headaches he gets after is bad.

Yes...he also has highblood pressure and a certified smoker. I do know that maintenance medicines for highblood pressure can cause erectile dysfunction but when we asked this to his physician he told us that the medicines he prescribe to my husband doesn't do that.

Will talk to my hubby again about this....thanks

I recommend Cialis.

I discovered a while back that stress or smoking or high blood pressure can cuse erectile difunction. I had all three. Cialis did wonders for me, and later I didn't even need it.

Seek advise on how to talk about this subject with your husband. If you really love him, talk to a counsellor.

I married a man 18 yrs my senior. One of the reasons I fell inlove with him is the fact that he respected my wishes not to have pre-marital sex. It's been 3 years into the marriage and to tell you honestly, we haven't done it "all the way". The marriage as they say is not yet consummated. I believe that he has erectile dysfunction. Sad to say he's in denial. Since we are in a "long distance" relationship, it does help in a way, for I am not focused on the "no-sex" part of the relationship. But on the other hand, I am now getting more angry at the situation that I am in and at him. I am still in my early 30's and I feel that I am missing out. I do love him dearly and have remained faithful to him and to the relationship. I just don't know if I can continue any longer. Also, is it true that if a marriage is not consummated, then it the marriage is "null and void"? HELP?!!!

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